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INTRODUCTION
- SHO KAI
A
proper introduction is a vital and proper beginning to
any relationship. It is always best to have someone else
introduce you for the first time and it is best that
this be done in person. An introduction, formal or
informal, is critical for the Japanese. It establishes
the status or place of each person. It establishes the
hierarchy and then everyone knows how to behave.
Everyone knows who to defer to or pay the most respect
to. The highest ranking person is introduced first, and
everyone else in order thereafter.
BUSINESS
CARDS
In
Japan, the very first thing that happens in a business
meeting is an exchange of business cards. This quickly
establishes the seniority of the person you are meeting.
The business cards are clean, without pen notes, and
kept in a case that is readily accessible. The business
cards are exchanged and presented formally with both
hands. The card is presented facing the recipient so he
or she can read it. The cards themselves are handled
very carefully and respectfully, as if you are handling
the person. The cards are carefully read, even if you do
not understand a word (to not read it implies that one
is not important). Do not play, fidget, or write on the
card. For the Japanese, the following is the order of
important information on your business card:
Your
company
Your department in the company
Your position
Your last name (first names are not important)
Your address or telephone number
Even
in a verbal introduction, your company name is said
first.
The
company that you work for can give instant status,
especially if it is one of the large trading
corporations. For example, you might show greater
respect to a junior executive from IBM than to a more
senior executive at a smaller, less well known company.
Your company is who you represent and the greater
picture is more important than the individual.
In
Japan, your position amongst others is critical. In a
large company there are many, many different titles to
support this class system. Most often, a person is
referred to or addressed by their title as opposed to
their name, such as "Mr. President." This is a
sign of respect and even goes outside the business
circle to others such as teachers or doctors. Always use
the person's last name, including "Mr" or
"Mrs" or the Japanese version San, especially
in letters or documentation.
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