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THE
GROUP IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE INDIVIDUAL
The
Japanese believe that cooperation and harmony among all
members of a group is more important than an
individual's desire to put his or her interests above
all others. In North America, there is an extreme form
of individualism and an emphasis on one's rights. In
Japan, each individual is important, however, he or she
is not an isolated being. Each individual is a member of
a team, whether a family, an office, a neighbourhood, a
community, or the country. The Japanese believe that
whatever they do or say, they must keep in mind the
interests of others. Cooperation in a group takes
precedence over individual responsibility, authority, or
initiative.
THE
APPEARANCE OF HARMONY
The
Japanese believe that surface harmony must be
maintained. In doing business with the Japanese, the
relationship is just as (or may be more) important than
the business itself is. Logic and facts alone reflect a
coldness and insensitivity to human nature. For the
Japanese, respect, sensitivity, and harmony are
sometimes more important than the truth. From a Western
perspective, it is like keeping the peace with
"little white lies" if necessary. An example
might be telling a host how delicious a terrible meal
is.
DON'T
SAY "NO"
The
Japanese try to avoid confrontations and direct
questions that might create discomfort or a loss of
face. The Japanese are not direct, open, or frank. Often
they are criticized for being too vague, but their real
intentions might be to respect and develop a
relationship.
PRESENTATION
For
the Japanese, the form is often more important than the
content. The way something is said is just as important
as what is actually said. The manner in which the food
is presented at the table is as important as the taste
of the food. The gift wrapping and presentation of a
gift can be more important than the gift itself.
STATUS
The
Japanese have a strong sense of hierarchy, rank,
position or status at all times. This non-verbal code
dictates what is appropriate behaviour for each
situation. It makes it very clear who should pay respect
to whom.
WOMEN
Traditionally,
the role of the Japanese woman is to be at home, raising
the children. Japanese wives usually have strict control
over household affairs including the finances of the
family and the all important decisions on education for
the children. In the world of business, you do not
usually see Japanese women in management positions.
Wives or girlfriends do not accompany businessmen to
dinners or to evening entertainment. There are of
course, many women who work as clerks or O.L.'s (office
ladies) until they marry. |